7 Ways of Successful Parenting
1. Be There
Let your child talk. What was their day like? Ask, “How did that make you feel?” Allow your child to openly express ideas, feelings and worries. Listen. Do not lecture. Encourage your child to express feelings creatively.
2. Be Consistent
Establish a reliable routine. A clear and consistent routine helps a child feel safe, and helps a child learn what is right and wrong. Be consistent!
3. Let Your “No” Be No
If you say “no” to your child, make sure you both understand what that means and keep to the rule. Then act quickly, firmly and safely when it is challenged. Carry out any threatened punishment. Your child wants to know that your “no” means no.
4. No Secrets
Tell your child it is never good to keep a secret that feels bad or confusing.
5. Never Hit In Anger
Research has shown that hitting your child does not help, and can do more damage. Try to keep away from hitting your child in anger.
6. No Shouting Allowed
Words hurt, too. Do not shout at your children in anger. If they break a rule, tell them what they did wrong and why that makes you angry. Be angry at what they did, NOT at who they are.
7. Get Away
When you feel upset or angry, let your feelings out safely away from your children. Call a friend over or leave your children with someone you trust. Get out. Do not stay alone with your children when you are overwhelmed. Get help and support.
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